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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 00:32

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

One cannot live in the past .

My family never makes their pension either.

When does a man tell a woman he has feelings for her?

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

Is it painful for men to wear bras, panties, and tampons?

He resisted the act ,that day.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

Why do White people love dogs more than humans?

They are buried together, in the same grave..

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

(And it was in our own minds.)

How do you get people to follow your Quora Space?

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

Im still living with it.

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Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

When she asked me how she looked .

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

Can I use the LEG PRESS to build muscle?

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

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But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

I know ,a lot about trauma.

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And who doesn’t know suffering?

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

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Would this be the day?

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

I was very sick at this time too.

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I of course replied” arh beautiful!

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

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Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

So whats the point in blame.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

I could never make a relationship work though!

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

And i lived it daily.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

I did it because my mum asked me too!

This is how, and why children get BPD.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

She married twice! .

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

We all went to grammer schools

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

But, we were locked up after school.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

I waited trembling.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

I have no regrets .

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

Put me off passion for life!!

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

We were not on the streets..

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

All the time i was locked up.

She wouldn,t have been !

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

I was 9 years of age.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

Im dying but, im not bitter.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

Ive learnt so much.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

I said to her

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

I write beautiful poetry .

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

On the 31st of Jan this month .

As i do to all so called friends.?

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

Who then, do I blame.?

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

I was seconnd youngest,

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

So, i spoilt her more .

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

She found it foreign!.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

This is soul school!.

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

My life is so biszare .

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

Why did i forgive my father ?

I don,t even have a pension.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

What did i know ?

But it wasn’t much.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

I had hoped to write a book about this .

My mum and dad in the seventies!

Comes on , in middle age.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

Was to survive, this bastard.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

He knew the spot.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

I will be 64.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

I couldn’t, believe it.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

She was in good health!

I think the readers, may guess!

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

I never cut or harmed myself..

Especially a lifetime of it.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

But ive been too sick for many years..

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

She loved him until the end.

It was going to be , some day.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

I was scared of men, in general

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.